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Thursday, April 7, 2011

Hey, I just saw a question that you answered about how do you know if someone is 'the one'. I haven't found 'the one' yet (I'm just 17 and not currently dating anyone right now), but one day when I was having random thoughts I thought about something. I remember when I got my first cell phone, I would leave it on vibrate. When I'd be waiting for a text or a phone call, I'd be sitting there with it in my pocket waiting for it to vibrate. There would be moments where I thought I felt something and I was sure it was it, but then I'd check it and it'd be nothing. And then when it finally did vibrate, I realized that that was what it was without a doubt. It was almost kind of amusing how all those previous times I had thought it had vibrated, when the vibration itself was so much stronger and obvious. After a while I stopped second-guessing and just learned to trust my phone (sounds kinda weird, I know). As I was thinking about this, I realized that finding the one is probably the same. You may be absolutely sure that this time it really is them, that they're the one, but if there's a doubt in your mind (a reasonable one, mind you, not the anxious kind), then it's probably a false alarm. I think that one day when you meet that person, it'll be like a jolt, or a vibration. It'll be so strong and apparent that there is no way for you to deny it, that this person is 'the one.'

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